Saturday, May 24, 2008

Gladney Caregivers and a few more things on Ethiopia



The caregivers at the Gladney Center really love and care for the children. It's a beautiful and overwhelming thing to see. I've posted here only photos of some of these amazing women with Noah Arone but I have many others of them loving lots of other babies...it's just safer to only post these for now. Anyway, just wanted to share how cool it was to see such love pouring out of these ladies for these kids...many of the caregivers were orphaned themselves as children, so they understand firsthand what it is like for these children and there is something about that that just can't be overlooked - it clearly makes a world of difference when you see the affection and genuine love, compassion and attachment between them. It's a beautiful thing.

Also, I remembered a few other little tidbits of info on Ethiopia to share. First off, Sprite was my best friend while we were there. Whenever I could find it, I would drink it because it helped to settle my ill feelings from the car rides and the diesel smell that overwhelmed me at times. It's not always available at the restaurants but when it is, if you're feeling queezy at all, drink it!

And when you hear an Ethiopian sound like they are gasping for air suddenly, that means 'yes'...this threw me off for a while at first as I wondered why everyone seemed to be surprised all the time, but once I learned that the gasp is their version of 'yea' or 'uhuh', I thought it was so cool, and even started gasping myself in agreement on things. It's literally just a quick and subtle inhale with a slightly audible gasp, so look out for it. Solomon, one of the drivers, does it a lot, I think because he is just so agreeable. I still do it here at home with our little guy and he loves to hear it.

On that note, one thing I wish I had done more of but am glad I did a little of, is pick up some of the sounds and mannerisms of the caregivers at the Gladney Center. I think it has really helped with Noah's adjustment to his new life, to still be able to hear me mimic some of the sounds he was used to hearing - things like the way they say his name and little 'baby talk' phrases you will hear when you are there. Just food for thought...

Happy Memorial Day weekend...stay tuned, my next post is going to be about Noah Arone meeting the Julie and family...with some fun photos too!

6 comments:

Rebecca said...

I'm taking notes as I read your post! Hopefully, I'll begin planning our travel (assuming we make it through court!)

DC said...

I'm really enjoying reading about the details of your trip. Thank you for sharing all this information.

My husband and I are trying to decide between Gladney and another agency. If you have a moment, I would love to get your input!

BTW . . . I hope you don't mind that I added you to my blogroll. I LOVE your blog! :)

coffeemom said...

Hello! I have something for you from Getahun, from Kolfe. I know he also connected w/ Shelly and so want to make sure I am remembering properly (though he mentioned you again in this email he sent). Can you email me (you sent me a video of Tariku, so you should have my email) and we can confirm that you are wanting this and I will ship it to you asap as soon as I get your address? He wrote me asking about you.....Thanks so much! I look forward to hearing from you. Loving your pics!!

Jan and Randy said...

Did I leave my email for you:
tstricklin_0829@yahoo.com

Jan

LISA said...

Ohhh, i haven't ever heard that tip!! Thanks! Don't forget,if any more pop in your head,post!! Thanks! He looks like such a happy baby!!

Seeking Truth said...

Noah is beautiful. The caregivers look so loving and full of life. Great advice to get sounds and expressions from the caregivers to make the baby feel more like home later! I will remember that. Best of luck to your family.